Do you believe the circumstances of your life are out of your control? If so, you allow yourself to become a victim of circumstance. And no one likes being a victim. Victims feel powerless and believe they lack control. It’s no wonder. Victimhood is the mindset that something or someone has power over you. It …
When I began pursuing personal and spiritual growth, I often heard this statement: “You have to get to the point where you feel sick of being sick.” Sometimes this advice was delivered as a question, “Are you sick of being sick yet?” What is this sickness? What Ails You? It’s not a specific health issue, …
People often ask me why they should “work on themselves” or begin a personal growth journey. The reason is simple: You start the process of personal growth because you want to be the best version of yourself possible. Personal growth is about becoming your best self. That doesn’t mean that you don’t accept yourself now. …
It’s human nature to worry about and plan for how something will happen. In effect, you are trying to control the process so you get a desired outcome. You want a specific result and the plan that will help you achieve that result. And you believe you are the only one who can figure out …
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Even when you don’t realize change is happening, it is. And, over time, the transformational journey can take an emotional and physical toll. Yes, it’s all good! But be aware that your efforts to change may create a need for self-care. If you take care of yourself and acknowledge your progress, you’ll get to your …
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In every moment, you make choices. And those choices determine who you become, what you do and experience, and the results you create. Every decision you make affects your identity. “Life is a matter of choices, and every choice you make makes you,” claims John Maxwell. And those choices also become your life. As Tony …
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William Shakespeare said, “The eyes are the window to your soul.” When you look into your eyes, do you see your soul? And when you look into someone else’s eyes, do you see a soul housed in a body and all the potential that soul has to become spiritually actualized? Probably not. Neither did I…until …
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Many people give their personal and spiritual growth lip service rather than consistently investing time and energy in related activities. They aren’t committed to change. Yet, they wonder why nothing in themselves or their lives changes. Change takes a commitment of time, energy, attention, and, sometimes, money. You must be willing to consistently devote resources …
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You may not consider yourself a “fighter.” But I bet you fight for the things that are important to you…or not. Answer this question: How often do you fight for other things or people? And how often do you fight for yourself? Most of us don’t fight for ourselves—and for what’s important to us—nearly as …
If you’ve been struggling to be who, as well as do and have what, you want, there’s only one obstacle in your path—you. Knowing that, wouldn’t you agree that it’s time to get out of your way? Of course, you would, but how? First, take responsibility. Stop blaming other people or situations because you have …
I bet you could make a super long list of the things you want. Call them “your desires.” But if you want to deliberately or consciously create them, stop wanting them. As long as you continue to want something—a new computer, a published book, a raise, better health, your soul mate, a successful blog, or …
Do you feel as if you’ve given away your personal power? I do, too. So, how do we get it back? That’s a question I’ve been grappling with recently. I’ve always seen myself as a woman who stood in her personal power. I asked for what I wanted and went after my dreams. I spoke …
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