Stop Blaming Your Failure on Lack of Talent

achieve success with practiceHave you ever watched a dancer or listened to a musician, read the words of a novelist or looked at the work of a artist and thought, “I wish I had that kind of talent.” Have you ever heard a story of a successful entrepreneur or inventor and told yourself, “I wish I could have that kind of success, but…I don’t have the talent.”

While we each have some inherent skills or abilities, in fact, little proof exists that we are born with that illusive thing we call “talent.” An in depth look at story after story of the most talented people shows that most, if not all, achieved their success by following their passions and interests and spending untold hours perfecting their skills. They worked hard. They practiced until they got good enough to succeed.

And some didn’t have skills when they started out. They just had a desire to have those skills and a willingness to work hard to achieve them.

Outliers and Success

Just read Outliers: The Story of Success by Malcom Gladwell if you don’t believe me. In this book, Gladwell takes an intellectual look at what he calls the “outliers” of the world, or the best and the brightest, the most famous and the most successful. He asks the question: What makes high-achievers different?

What he discovers is that it has less to do with what successful people are “like” and more to do with where they are from. The things that seem to make a difference in our success begin with the culture, the family, the generation, and the idiosyncratic experiences that occur during early years. The book shows that there are software billionaires who simply had thousands of hours of access to early mainframe computers during high school or college years; that’s what made them phenomenal programmers. And there are great soccer player who got different opportunities than their counterparts simply because of the year or month in which they were born; that doesn’t mean they didn’t start out with some physical ability. Gladwell also explains why Asians are good at math; he shows how their language, rather than intelligence, is at play.

Improving Your Chances of Success

Take away the information about culture, family, generation, and idiosyncratic experiences, and what that means for you (and for me) is that we can make ourselves successful whether or not we feel we have talent. All it takes is practice. Of course, having a bit of talent or skill to begin with helps! But many hours doing the thing we want to be good at can make us successful.

In Outliers, Gladwell repeatedly mentions the “10,000-Hour Rule,” and claims that the key to success in any field is, to a large extent, a matter of practicing a specific task for about that many hours. Researchers at Michigan State University decided to study this theory by looking at how musicians and chess player advance in their careers. Now, they concluded that only 30-34% of success relied on hours practiced. Yet, that’s still a significant percentage. Imagine if you increased the time you practice something you’d like to be good at by 30%. You would significantly increase your chance of succeeding at it. And that’s really the point.

K. Anders Ericsson, professor of psychology at Florida State University, whose research originally characterized the “10,000 hour” rule, took another look at the data and said he has seen no convincing evidence that brain-related genes put an absolute limit on expert performance. Other researchers, such as Scott Barry Kaufman, assistant professor of psychology at New York University, says the debate is really one over priority. While innate talent plays a role in proficiency, so does training to hone that talent. He mentions that even memory plays a part in success, but that can be improved with practice as well.

Despite any debate, Kaufman noted that practice accounted for four times (roughly 30%) more variance that memory. Which just stresses the point that if you practice something, you increase your chance of succeeding at it. (To read more about these studies, click here.)

Practice for Success

No matter if we believe we have the talent or the physical or mental attributes necessary for success, we can decide to put in the hours to get good at what we want to do. Each of us is afforded the opportunity to practice for success—and to become successful because we did so—rather than to blame our failure on a lack of talent.

Don’t use lack of talent as an excuse. Many an athlete didn’t start out as “talented” as the others but practiced harder and longer. We can each do the same. We don’t have to remain imprisoned by our belief that we are not good enough or as good, and we can set out to become as good as we want to become.

Even the best in their field still practice and train. Tiger Woods still shows up at a match with his trainer. I know business people earning millions of dollars each year who hire personal coaches. Sports teams continue to practice daily. Mastery is a never-ending process, but it’s a required on if you want to succeed.

What will you practice today and the next day and the next to ensure you create the talent and skill you desire?

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