Imagine showing up for life every day as the person you want to be rather than the person you are. You’d put on a costume and persona congruent with who you’d like to become in a year or two or three. And you’d experience yourself as that person now. What type of impact might that …
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I can’t remember if I planted the Century Plant behind my house or if it was here when I moved in. But this plant has thrived in the 15 years I’ve lived in this home. I mean…it’s huge! And now…after all this time… it’s going to bloom. That fact is, one one hand, super exciting. …
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How do you approach your days, weeks, and months? Do you move through them intuitively, willy-nilly, in reaction to whatever happens or is required, or with a concrete plan? The highest performers—people who get the most done, accomplish their goals consistently, and have a healthy, happy, and balanced life to boot—plan. And the success tool …
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Since I was in my early 30s, I’ve been obsessed with how humans create. I believe we are creative beings. Yet, more often than not, we feel incapable of creating even the smallest of our desires. Despite everything I know about conscious creation, I, too, struggle to create the life I desire. I have trouble …
Are you going through life on cruise control? It’s easy to set your days up so you can push a button and then “drive” at the same speed no matter what without much thought. That sort of life can be pretty comfortable…as long as you remain satisfied. However, at some point you will feel dissatisfied …
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How many times in your life have you wished for…waited for…a hero to save you from whatever situation you found yourself in? You wanted a prince, Superman, The Hulk, or God to rescue you from one predicament or another. I see you…down in a deep hole, hand raised, arm stretched to its limit…waiting for someone …
Have you ever identified which relationship has been your longest one running? In the past, I would have said it was my relationship with my mother, my siblings, or a few of my high school friends. I’ve been married 30 years—that probably qualifies, right? Wrong. These are all incorrect answers. Let me explain. Your Longest …
Not long ago, I started writing affirmations using the words “worthy.” I’d gone to a healer who suggested doing so in reference to my relationship with God. I was told to recite, “I am worthy of Creator’s love.” The more I worked with the affirmation, though, the more clearly I saw that I had worthiness …
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I turned 59 in April. There’s nothing like a post-mid-life birthday to get you thinking about what you wish you’d done with your life to date…and hope to do before you die. I don’t want to have regrets when my time comes. A few months ago, a friend told me to read The Top Five …
Are you a perfectionist? Or are you okay with things being a bit messy? Here’s the thing—nothing is ever perfect. You can always find some way to improve on just about anything. Therefore, if you wait for whatever you do to be perfect, you’ll never finish. If you wait for perfection, you may not even …
Our natural desire to be liked and, even more so, loved, can cause us to try enormously hard to fit in and behave in acceptable ways. It’s easy to forget, though, that the best way to be loved and accepted is to be ourselves…fully, unapologetically, unabashedly. Indeed, when you allow yourself to show up authentically, …
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Sometimes, when I speak about Certified High Performance Coaching, people mistakenly think I want to help them do more. If they already feel stressed by the number of commitments they have, they balk at any mention of “leveling up” their current performance. “I want to do less,” they say, “not more. I don’t want more …
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