My marriage changed the day I changed. When I changed on the inside, my outside circumstances changed as well. If you aren’t changing, which means engaging in personal growth, neither will your relationship. My marriage was failing. I felt certain it could be saved if my husband did one thing: change. In my mind, fixing […]
7 Things You Must Stop Doing Now to Improve Your Relationship Read More »
In personal and spiritual growth circles, it’s a pretty common phenomenon for couples to split up. The reason is simple: only one partner is doing the internal work that leads to transformation, and the other is not. As a result, both partners grow apart and go their separate ways. But this doesn’t happen if both
Healthy Relationships Require Both People to Work on Themselves Read More »
Getting married and staying married are two entirely different things. It’s easy to get married. It’s not so easy to remain married. Marriages, just like all relationships, take work. From a Kabbalistic, or Jewish mystical, perspective this isn’t surprising. Just look at the spiritual, or mystical, history and importance of men and women and you’ll
Kabbalistic Thoughts on My 26th Wedding Anniversary Read More »
I’ve spoken with several people recently—friends in their 50s—who have been married for 18-20 years. They all have had issues in their marriage in the last few years. It seems to me a normal process for people to change over that amount of time and for that fact to make it difficult for marriages to
People Change, Marriages Change Read More »
This past Friday night, Shabbat, I celebrated my 21st wedding anniversary. A lot of people congratulated me. I suppose it represents some sort of feat to stay married that long. However, it seems to me that someone should be asking what my marriage is like after all those years. It’s a feat to stay married
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