How to Become a Master at Anything in Life

Mastery of any skill requires you to put in the hours of practice

Becoming a master at anything in life takes time. According to Malcolm Gladwell, author of Outliers, it takes 10,000 hours to achieve mastery. That means if you want to master anything at all, you need to put in the hours.

You need to put in hours and hours and hours of practice.

Are you willing to do that to master a skill, a relationship, a sport, a job, or a task? If you developed mastery over something—like writing, photography, yoga, singing, computer programming, blogging, or painting—how would that change your life?

Masters Put in the Hours

Maybe you have already put in the hours and become a master at something. You could be a master ping-pong player or app creator, for instance. My son, who is a professional dancer, began dancing at the age of three and just turned 24. I’d bet that he has put in 10,000 hours of dance class, practice, rehearsal, and performance. I bet my mom put in 10,000 hours gardening. I know my stepdaughter has put in 10,000 hours playing and coaching soccer.

I have likely put in that amount of time or more practicing my writing. I’ve been a writer in one fashion or another since I was in elementary school. I’ve written for publications, produced posts on four of my own blogs consistently since 2005, and published 20 or so books (in different forms).

What about you? Have you put in the hours in some area of your life and gained mastery as a result?

Mastery is Fleeting

Here’s the thing: Even if you have put in 10,000 hours (or more), your mastery is a temporary condition.


No matter the level of mastery you possess, you can always do whatever you do even better. You can increase your level of proficiency.

My son does not feel as if he’s mastered his art form—dance. I know I can still improve my writing craft. My stepdaughter continues to perfect her skill with a soccer ball and as a coach.

True masters know they must always continue to improve their level of mastery. If they don’t, they won’t maintain their level of mastery…and someone else will become better than them. You can tell the real masters by the fact that they strive every day to improve.

They keep putting in the hours.

The Path to Mastery

If there is something you’d like to master, you can achieve that goal. You simply must get clarity on what you want to accomplish, how you will do so, and then take action.

Get out a journal and make a list of the things you wish you were good at. Maybe you would love to be a master meditator, yoga instructor, novelist, pianist, leader, accountant, or quilter.

Identify one area you feel most passionate about or connect with emotionally.

Next, ask yourself this question: Would I be willing to commit time to this activity—lots of time—so I can master it?

If you answer affirmatively, it’s time to get out your calendar. Block out time to begin mastering the skill. This is when you decide how many hours you are willing to devote to this each week. (If you answered negatively, it’s time to re-evaluate your list and find an area or skill you are eager to commit to mastering.)

You also may need to identify people, courses, or training that will help you master the skill. You can block out time on your calendar for “education” as well as practice.

All that’s left is for you to follow through. Begin putting in the hours, and you will gain mastery in whichever area you choose.

What have you mastered or what do you plan to master? Tell me in a comment below.

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4 thoughts on “How to Become a Master at Anything in Life”

  1. Karanda Ziegler Marshall

    The free call session pop up stopped me reading. I closed it three times before scrolling here and griping. Blessed be that was obnoxious.

    1. I wrote directly to you. It’s possile to click the white X and get rid of the popup. I’m sorry you were annoyed.

  2. so like i master rocket league in 7,000 hours. I woke up to the 5th dimension and all iit turns out being is you are more than the self. you are conscious awareness, within the flow of your passion you just know what to do, its when the techniques becomes subconscious stimuli do you create reality. You cant have to stop in the flow of the moment and think about what technique and how to do it. without falling out of balance and eluding the answer. You master when you desire enough creativity that you build the feeling of joy up to the point you blow heave out of your forehead in a 3rd eye and see all path and everything outside of time. manifest destiny within the passion and you wake up to GOD. you are God. Christ consciousness. SmurphysLaws pretty ironic but its my user name! ill prove it on twitch. FAITH. Balance your self stay calm and you become master. its the moment you succeed its outside of it you fail.

  3. Lol im not messing around I mean if you are a “master” and you have the subconscious ability. Google the secert, or manifest destiny if you don’t already KNOW. Simply want to preform an action you are normally good at but KNOW it is done for you are everything you see in the minds eye and the reality is only energy as quantum physics shows. So do it where it will be easier to see how and see the DIRECT and instant result. Find what feelin is the KNOWING you get right before you complete something somewhat challenging and how it feels when you follow it all the way through to realization. Take that feeling and stay with it until you continue to build the joy up up up up and OUT of your head and into everything. PURE LOVE is right there its just a vibration we arent at. know what it feels like to know so that when you fail you see you simply just dont know. Apply that to life you become a transended master as jesus said was coming jesus was awakened spiritually religion is not of this class. EVERYONE is on this path to awakening whether they agree or not. They are God. WAKE UP! 😀 one love.

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