There’s a time and place for attempting to make things happen. But usually, responding to what’s happening around you tends to be a more effective strategy. After all, you and I both know trying to control anything tends to be a waste of time and effort. We think we can control stuff, but we aren’t […]
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I blame others—more often than I care to admit. For example, I blame my fear of people leaving on my father, who died when I was seven. I blame my feelings of inadequacy as a writer on my mother, who told me I couldn’t earn a living as a novelist. But if I can blame
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Lately I’ve been cleaning a lot of closets and drawers. I had a two-fold excuse for this: my husband is job-hunting, so we might be forced to move, and I have the opportunity to participate in a community garage sale. The real reason stems from my desire to gain control over the uncontrollable in my
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“Can you really let go?” I asked myself this question today when I left my son a long message on Facebook telling him I was basically “cutting the apron strings” and letting him handle his own stuff. To a great extent, I have not choice but to let go; he’s in Germany. I can’t help
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